Should I watch porn with my partner?
Watching porn is cheating! I don’t agree with that statement. I believe that watching porn either alone or with your partner is more than OK, and very healthy. You should watch porn if you are comfortable doing so with your partner. Do what you feel makes you the most comfortable, but maybe you can find something you and your partner enjoy watching together.
When you are “popping your cherry” for the first time, does it actually hurt?
It really depends on the person. Usually, when you are having sex for the first time a woman’s hymen stretches, causing bleeding and some pain, but there are some really easy ways in which you and your partner can make your first time more enjoyable. Lubrication, foreplay and once again communication will be your best friends when it comes to having sex for the first time.
When is the best time to bring up your sexual fantasies/desires?
Honestly, the best time to talk about your sexual fantasies/desires is when you can be alone with your partner in a comfortable space and hypothetically ask them. For example, “Hey I have been thinking about wanting to blindfold you while we do it, what do you think about that?” It gives your partner time to respond and not feel like you are pressuring them. Never pressure your partner!
Signs they are not into you like that
Language that emphasizes “friendship.”
It can be tricky to tell if someone’s not romantically interested, but here are a few ways to interpret it. Usually establishing that they want to be friends on a first date is a polite way of saying they are not interested in pursuing anything romantic. They may enjoy your company but simply don’t feel a romantic spark, so they’re suggesting a platonic relationship instead.
Talking about other people they find attractive .
This is definitely a red flag, especially if they’re talking about their past relationship partners to you. Talking about others they’re attracted to can also indicate they’re not ready to focus on one person and may not be looking for a committed relationship at the moment. This can also mean you are a rebound and they’re just trying to get over their ex with you. Some people will directly or subtly hint that they’re not ready for a relationship, and it often shows up in the way they phrase things. This ties in with commitment issues that might be a problem in the future.
